You know when you are little and you want something so badly but you know you will never get it? Perhaps it is a new toy, a puppy or having your birthday party at sea world. You continue to ask… beg…for it over and over again until you have gotten either 1 of 2 results. You either have annoyed the person so much that they have given in and just let you have it. Or you have annoyed that person to the point where you will NEVER get you what you are asking for.
As an adult we continue to do this, maybe not in the same repetitive manor or for the same childhood desires but rather seeking life necessities along with the occasional materialist items. I have recently found myself mentally doing the same thing that I once did as a child. Over and over again I tell myself I want/need this or that. One of the many perks of growing up is you get to be in control of your choices… to a point. You get to live your life and make the arrangements necessary to live it as you want to.
But what happens when you don’t know how to obtain the things in life that you want/need? What happens when the same desires swirl around in your head and you can’t seem to work out any practical way of achieving your goals? Is it time to start fresh and new? Do you seek the advice of a friend? Is there a solution you may have missed? Are there answers?
I wish I could tell you that I have found the solution, but sadly I have not. Unfortunately, as an adult the 2 outcomes that could have applied as a child no longer work when you become an adult. So if you have any words of advice I would love for you to share.
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